A team has specific positions, usually cross trains, knows how to pinch hit for each other, knows the goal of the game, has a clear idea of how the goal is to be reached, and finds its most brilliant strength in the synergy between the players. The players support each other for success.

This also describes a winning family team playing the “Peaceful Estate Settlement Game.”

Team members create intentional, purposeful relationship systems in order to accomplish their mutual goals. 

Team building starts with building relationship. Start with focusing on the natural strengths of the sibling group. What a great excuse to all go off on a family holiday! Get to know each other as adult friends. If necessary get some practice at socializing with and enjoying each other in low conflict environments. 

Sometimes parental care falls on the shoulders of the spouse of one child whose siblings are not available to help. If the caretaker is not a sibling, s/he may not be able to vote on decisions made by the group. However, s/he must be heard. The caretaker needs acknowledgement and help. Teamwork matters! The circle can be made up of the team of siblings at the core with the important support cast welcome, present, available and appreciated.

1. Identify the Parties Involved
2. Begin The Conversation
3. Build Trust
4. Competency of Trustee & Advisors
5. Element Five: Design Your Alliance for Family Meetings
6. Build A Team
7. Meet Regularly
8. Plan Fun into the Process
Conclusion